My With Love Method
An approach based on listening and on the child's needs. For families who can't bear the crying.
See where to startThe principles we start from, together.
"I'll never ask you to leave your child to cry, but I'll also never ask you to do anything that makes you uncomfortable."
No one in the world knows better than you what's right for your children, and that's the basic principle we start from when we work together. We work as a team: I bring the "sleep expert" part, you bring the "expert on your own children" part.
"The only habits we should change are the ones that don't bring peace to us or to our children. For everything else, anything goes!"
And this is exactly the principle behind the support I can give the families who decide to trust me. We don't work on what one "should" do, but on what the ideal situation is for you: sometimes you already have it clear, other times we figure it out together — but we work on YOUR goals, with no rules and no judgment.
So what does working with me actually involve?
Whether in a consultation or in my digital programs, the goal is to help you experience your children's sleep with calm and to reach YOUR goals.
We start by looking at your current situation, your child's age and your needs; from there we make changes to help you reach your ideal situation. There are no rules, there's no judgment. And we don't talk about preset methods.
I'll guide you through any change you want to make, and we'll do it gradually, respecting your children's pace and needs… but yours too. The point won't be to reach the goal in x days, but to make sure any change is experienced calmly — accompanying them, supporting them and respecting their needs.
The principle at the heart of my approach is not to force changes and not to deprive children of support, but rather to set the right foundations so I can guide your little ones through change and make sure they're the first to experience it well.
Hello, I'm Federica.
I'm a Family Consultant specializing in pediatric sleep for children aged 0 to 6. I'm Italian but I did my studies in the United States, and today I split my time between Italy and Florida, working with families online and in person.
My goal is to improve relationships within the family, communication skills within the couple and to teach parents how to relate to their children, helping them handle every situation as effectively as possible. I believe in empathy and judgment-free support, and I hope to convey the passion I have for my work.
I'm a certified pediatric sleep consultant: my training comes from a family-consultant background and from Kim West's method — The Sleep Lady — with annual updates and an exam to keep the certification.
Who's with you, besides me.
Mariasole — Sleep Consultant
My Sole, in name and in spirit. She's my assistant and, together with me, handles the Sleep Coaching programs and consultations. I place all my trust in her: I know she looks after my families with the same passion, professionalism and love. She leads the consultants team and for some years now has supported all the families who want to change some of their habits.
Lorenzo — Marketing
Many of you know him as Lollo. He's my partner in everything, and in the With Love team he handles the "behind the scenes": accounting, partnerships, the development of new products useful to families and the whole company marketing department.
Sibilla — Team member
She's the one who'll welcome you into our company. Sibilla is a university student who joined our team some time ago.
Are you ready to begin?
Get the digital program for ages 0–6 and start improving your child's sleep today — with my gentle, no-cry method.
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